Lullia BlogPractical guides for parents raising children across two homes, written plainly and backed by sources.https://getlullia.com/blog/enParallel parenting: what to do when co-parenting isn’t workinghttps://getlullia.com/blog/parallel-parenting-when-co-parenting-isnt-working/https://getlullia.com/blog/parallel-parenting-when-co-parenting-isnt-working/Parallel parenting for high-conflict separations: how to write a plan that leaves nothing to argue about, and when you need a safety plan instead.Tue, 06 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMTSafety and conflictHow to split your child’s costs without fighting about moneyhttps://getlullia.com/blog/splitting-child-costs-without-fighting/https://getlullia.com/blog/splitting-child-costs-without-fighting/What to share, how to split it and what to do about late payments when you and your ex pay for extras like braces, school trips and summer camp.Tue, 29 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMTMoneyHow to make two homes feel like home for your child after divorcehttps://getlullia.com/blog/making-two-homes-feel-like-home/https://getlullia.com/blog/making-two-homes-feel-like-home/What to buy twice, what travels in the bag, which house rules should match, and how to handle school, pets, new partners and a teen who wants one base.Thu, 17 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMTEveryday lifeWhat to write down when you co-parent (and what to leave out)https://getlullia.com/blog/what-to-write-down-when-co-parenting/https://getlullia.com/blog/what-to-write-down-when-co-parenting/What belongs in a co-parenting log, what to leave out, how to keep screenshots and originals, and what to check before you record a call.Thu, 10 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMTRecordsWhen your child doesn’t want to go to the other parent’s househttps://getlullia.com/blog/when-your-child-doesnt-want-to-go/https://getlullia.com/blog/when-your-child-doesnt-want-to-go/Why kids refuse to go to their other parent’s home, what to say at the door, how to ask about it later, and what to do if the reason is safety.Thu, 03 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMTTalking with childrenHow to split the holidays in your first year after separatinghttps://getlullia.com/blog/first-holidays-after-separation/https://getlullia.com/blog/first-holidays-after-separation/How to split Christmas, other holidays and birthdays after a separation, what each option costs your child, and how to agree it in writing before December.Tue, 25 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMTHolidaysHow to write to your co-parent without starting a fighthttps://getlullia.com/blog/how-to-write-to-your-co-parent/https://getlullia.com/blog/how-to-write-to-your-co-parent/How to write to your ex so requests get answered: one-topic messages, reply times, BIFF replies to hostile texts, and templates for swaps, school and costs.Thu, 13 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMTCommunicationHow to make handovers and custody exchanges calmer for your kidshttps://getlullia.com/blog/calmer-handovers-on-exchange-day/https://getlullia.com/blog/calmer-handovers-on-exchange-day/Where and when to do the handover, what to say at the door, what to do if your co-parent is late, and how to help your child settle back in.Tue, 04 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMTHandoversHow to choose a parenting schedule that fits your child’s agehttps://getlullia.com/blog/choosing-a-parenting-schedule-by-age/https://getlullia.com/blog/choosing-a-parenting-schedule-by-age/What 2-2-3, 2-2-5-5, 3-4-4-3 and alternating weeks look like night by night, which suit babies, school-age kids and teens, and how to write one down.Thu, 23 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMTSchedulesHow to tell your kids you’re getting divorced: what to say by agehttps://getlullia.com/blog/how-to-tell-your-children-about-divorce/https://getlullia.com/blog/how-to-tell-your-children-about-divorce/When and where to tell your children, a script for the first three minutes, and honest answers to ‘Is it my fault?’ for kids aged 4 to 17.Tue, 14 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMTTalking with children